Core Actions

Ask Permission

Quick asks, clear answers

Not every decision needs a scene negotiation. Permission requests give submissives a lightweight way to ask for everyday clearance and give dominants a single place to answer — with accountability and expiry built in.

Submissives send short everyday permission asks — going out, spending, starting an activity. The Dominant gets a push notification and approves or denies with optional notes. Pending requests expire after 24 hours if unanswered.

Permission request

Capabilities

Fast asks

Tap preset chips or write a custom message (up to 200 characters). Designed for real-life permissions, not long negotiations.

Dominant review

Incoming requests surface on the dominant home and in a dedicated list. Approve or deny from a detail sheet with optional notes.

24-hour expiry

Unanswered requests auto-expire so nothing stays ambiguous indefinitely.

Notifications

Push alerts the Dominant when a new ask arrives; the submissive is notified when the request is answered or cancelled.

History

Review pending and recent permission activity from the permission requests screen.

Screenshots

Permission request

Permission request

Request list

Role Perspectives

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For Dominants

Handle everyday asks without a thread of texts.

  • See new asks at a glance on your dashboard
  • Respond with approve or deny and optional context
  • Stay in control of boundaries while keeping logistics light
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For Submissives

Request permission in a structured, respectful channel.

  • One-tap chips for common scenarios
  • Know when your ask was answered
  • Cancel a pending request if plans change

Use Cases

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Going out with friends: quick ask before you leave

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Purchases or spending within agreed rules

3

Starting an activity that needs prior approval

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