Ask Permission
Quick asks, clear answers
Submissives send short everyday permission asks: going out, spending, starting an activity. The Dominant gets a push notification and approves or denies with optional notes. Pending requests expire after 24 hours if unanswered. It needs a partner, so solo dynamics cannot use it. A Premium feature; any partner's Premium unlocks it.
Not every decision needs a scene negotiation. Permission requests give submissives a lightweight way to ask for everyday clearance and give dominants a single place to answer, with a 24-hour expiry so no ask stays open.
Capabilities
Fast asks
Quick-pick from your recently used asks or write a custom message (up to 200 characters). Designed for real-life permissions, not long negotiations.
Dominant review
Incoming requests surface on the dominant home and in a dedicated list. Approve or deny from a detail sheet with optional notes.
24-hour expiry
Unanswered requests auto-expire so nothing stays ambiguous indefinitely.
Notifications
The Dominant gets a push when a new ask arrives or when the submissive cancels one. The submissive gets a push when the ask is answered.
History
The submissive sees their pending and recent asks, with each answer, on the permission requests screen. The Dominant sees the asks still waiting.
Role Perspectives
For Dominants
Handle everyday asks without a thread of texts.
- See new asks at a glance on your dashboard
- Respond with approve or deny and optional context
- Stay in control of boundaries while keeping logistics light
For Submissives
Request permission in a structured, respectful channel.
- Quick-pick from your recently used asks
- Know when your ask was answered
- Cancel a pending request if plans change
Use Cases
Going out with friends: quick ask before you leave
Purchases or spending within agreed rules
Starting an activity that needs prior approval
Try permission requests free — one subscription covers both partners.
